Last week I was having a look at the
website analytics for this blog. The user statistics are anonymous but
give me an idea of why people are searching for me online and if there
are any new webpages discussing my case. It is helpful to find this out
so I can tell publishers to remove false or misleading information about
me.
As
I was looking through the data I noticed that someone had visited an
online video before
visiting my blog. I went online to see why online traffic was coming from
this source. It
was in fact a video of Eleanor de Freitas, which explains the
connection to my own blog. The video was titled "posh British escort shagged for cash" or similar.
It started with Ms de Freitas sitting
on a sofa and a man behind a camera asking her about her escorting and
what services she provides. She answers his questions, fully aware she is
being filmed. She discusses candidly that she has sex for money and
performs all services apart from "a levels". She says she is based
around Chelsea and that it is a "hobby" which she really enjoys
The
man then asks if she has ever had sex on camera before. He says "well
this is an outcall isn't it" and she explains she doesn't do "in-calls"
they then go on to have sex for around 20 minutes and, she is fully
aware she is being filmed, often talking into camera. At one point she
tells viewers the name of her website, which I shall not name.
In
the December 2012 blog entries I explained it was when I discovered Ms
de Freitas was an escort that I broke off the relationship. For many
years various "high profile" feminists claimed that I lied about Ms
de Freitas being an prostitute, even accusing me of harassment, eg
Harriet Wistrich and Lisa Avalos, Julie Bindel amongst others. Now I have Eleanor
talking into camera confirming that she was indeed a prostitute, proving that I was telling the truth.
The
significance of her being a prostitute is firstly that she would have
had to lie about her whereabouts all the time to her parents who she was
living with. Lying is what this case was about. Who was a liar and who
was honest.
The fact she is doing these risky escorting activities for "fun" also
means that she is an assertive individual, far from the poor little
innocent victim that she tried to come across to the police. She was
confident around men, knew what she was doing and highly manipulative.
All this is relevant when putting things into perspective.
Below: A screenshot from the video I found.
Note: I
have not re-published the actual video nor have I linked to it. At all
times Eleanor de Freitas was aware she is being filmed on the video,
consents to being filmed and authorized it's publication online. It is clearly a business transaction in which
she was paid. I have no involvement with the publication or any
re-publication of this video and am merely speaking about its existence
and how it relates to my legal case involving her. This is not entirely new information, Eleanor de
Freitas escorting has been discussed since 2015 by the national press, and is already in the public domain
for example.